When You Remember That You’re Created From Pure Abundant Love

Life can be beautiful, when we allow it. There’s limitless love emanating from us. No matter what the question, love is the answer.

So why do we think we don’t have love? When others don’t pay us enough attention, when we’re alone in our living rooms, wondering why we’re here and if anyone will love us back?

We often forget. Humans need other humans or furry friends to mirror love. It’s harder to feel and see it when we’re by ourselves.

The other day, I felt inertia creeping in. I felt blah when it got cold, dark, and rainy, about the time I was alone with my thoughts.

I had just finished meeting with an energetic form of a Pleiadian friend, communicating with a pendulum. Our exchange was uplifting and enlightening. But I still felt a need to fill my emptiness. It was as though I was clinging to an old idea about myself before letting it go.

At first, I dove deeper into a profound pit of loneliness. I mean, I was talking to spirit friend with a freaking pendulum minutes earlier. Of course I felt lonely.

I didn’t stay in that head space for long, though. When I stepped away from my cozy purple blanket on the couch, the clouds had parted and literal sunshine came pouring through my window again.

I had an epiphany. I’m here to love, and it’s ok to express it. We’re all limitless light beings of love. So why do humans try to hide their feelings, push others away, and so on?

Humans make the simplest things complicated. My ego wants reciprocity. And I know there’s nothing wrong with that. It’s ok to want another human beside me, actively expressing their love back to me.

But here’s what I do when someone doesn’t return the same expression with as much fervor as I do. I try to tone it down, pull back, or act like I don’t care. It’s not natural and doesn’t suit me at all. I can’t keep it up very long, anyway.

In romance, some people call that “playing the game.” Guess what? I don’t play those kinds of games. Ever. It’s emotionally impossible for me to try. I realized it’s ok to be transparent, vulnerable me. It’s also ok if and when others have different responses or no responses to my love.

True unconditional love means letting go of expectations. That doesn’t mean I don’t have any. That doesn’t mean I don’t want to feel loved. But I can trust someone who loves me without them demonstrating it. And if they don’t, someone else will. And if they can’t, someone else can. And if no one does any of that, I know I came here as a pure light being of love.

I’m made of love, and so are you. That means none of us are ever lacking in love. We always have love inside of us, and we’re meant to share it.

I had to get ok with my fear of rejection and thinking it meant I wasn’t loved. I had to get ok with other people not being ready for what I offer. I had to be ok with being a needy human.

It’s ok to need attention. It’s natural to feel sad when you’re alone. Humans need connection. We’re here for that.

The most wonderful experiences came to me that night after that light went on. I opened myself to actively holding others with love.

That morning, a new friend acknowledged me, which made me feel seen. Later, I supported a fellow sober person who wanted to die. I offered to listen to my longtime friend when they were feeling down. By evening, my other friend had listened to me process.

The cycle of love keeps turning. I said a prayer for those who are suffering. The candles lit in my bath signified shining a light on their troubles, and I sent them messages of love and hope.

It’s ok to love people. It’s what we’re here for.

I love you.

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This post was previously published on Hello, Love.

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